dear expectant mother

As a couple who has experienced multiple losses and values empathy, we thought writing this letter would come easily. But the truth is, it has been incredibly difficult, far more than we anticipated. We cannot fully imagine the depth of pain and complexity in your journey, but we want to honor it. Please know that we hold nothing but admiration and profound gratitude for you. We also want to share our deep commitment to love and care for your precious baby unconditionally. We dream of the day we can gently cuddle a child in our arms, tuck them into bed with warmth, and read stories that celebrate how deeply they are loved and how truly special they are. We have been waiting for this child with open hearts and have so much love already reserved just for them. Words feel inadequate to express the depth of our longing to become parents. For years, we have felt a void in our hearts, and your gift of life will make us whole. We are perfectly imperfect and flawed, yes, but in ways that make us real, relatable, and full of love. Together, we offer a rich tapestry of experiences, culture, and individuality. We are ready to provide not only a nurturing home but also one filled with warmth, belonging, and boundless love. We hope you see the sincerity of our hearts and choose to bless us with this extraordinary, life-changing opportunity. It would be our greatest honor and our most treasured gift.