We’ve been contemplating the words to use in this letter for weeks. With heavy hearts and lumps in our throats, we are sorry for the situation you're going through. We are so grateful for your selfless sacrifices, knowing that we could not do what you are bravely doing. Nothing could express our deep sympathy for the difficult journey you're taking right now.
Considering a family to love, cherish, and raise your precious child has to be one of the hardest things someone would ever have to do. We are in awe of your strength and courage as you contemplate what’s best for you and your child’s future.
Some things will be absolutely certain if you decide we are a good fit for you and your baby. We’ve got tons of saved up unconditional love just waiting to be sprinkled upon a sweet baby boy or girl. Regardless of your decision, know that you are a superstar. We could not do what you are doing, and we thank you for considering us to care for your little one. We have been prepping our families, our home, and our hearts for your precious baby. We promise to provide unconditional love, acceptance, and opportunities for this child as well as surrounding them with our family and friends, who are thrilled to help welcome this new addition. It would be the greatest blessing to have the honor of loving your baby.
We first met on a band trip to Disney World in high school. After never hanging out before, we hit it off and started officially dating. Paul then went to college and was in the marching band, and Becca started nursing school. After we were both done with school, Paul proposed, and the rest is history. Becca has a very large heart and fits perfectly into her job as a hospice nurse. She was inspired by her grandma to always give and the nurses who made an impact on her life. Paul is an accountant and loves helping his small business clients make educated financial decisions. We love to play board games, watch movies, attend local events, and see our family and friends as much as possible. We want to grow our family and give back to our local community.
We live in a small suburban Midwest city within walking distance of downtown. The community has deep pride in the school district, standing behind the sports teams, technology, and arts. Every student has the chance to succeed and to explore their passions. A few weekends every summer, the downtown streets shut down for themed city festivals. We try to make it to as many as we can. If we are not out, we are hanging out on our back deck enjoying our yard or inside with our two kitties, Chester and Keebler. We never had cats before but fell in love when we adopted them. They’re the purrfect cuddle buddies for watching a movie or to keep you warm at night.
Paul grew up as the youngest of three boys, while Becca is the oldest of two. We were fortunate enough to buy a house in our hometown. Now that we’re all in the area, we are able to participate in celebrating the holidays with both sides of our family. Becca’s family hosted Christmas Eve in her childhood home, and now we have begun that tradition at our own home, having our family over for Christmas and other gatherings throughout the year. We are excited to see how our traditions evolve.
Paul and his entire family enjoy BBQ Sundays and watching college and pro football as well as going to many of the games. Becca and her family are homebodies and enjoy rest and relaxation; they have gone up north to the lake for a relaxing, fun-filled week every year since she was in high school.
We have very close friends who are our family. We enjoy getting together to play yard, board, and card games often. They are building families of their own and are thrilled at the idea of us becoming parents.
Family plays an important role in our life, and we have always wanted the opportunity to have children of our own. Unfortunately, we were not able to have children and start a family naturally. After many discussions and research, we found adoption, and our hearts grew with the hope of becoming parents. The world can be so bad, but we want to make it a little better by raising a child with love and opportunities to become their best self.
