dear expectant mother

I first want to say how grateful I am that you are considering me to become a parent to your child. I cannot know what you are feeling and how difficult your decisions have been, but I do think you want what is best.

Please know that while I cannot promise to get everything right, I will never stop trying, and I will never give up on them. My home, my education, my family, my wealth, and especially my love will be theirs forever. When I become their dad, it is with all my heart and soul for the rest of my life, and I will always put them first. For my part, I hope in the end to have a legacy in the form of an amazing, actualized human being filled with hope and potential.

Please know also that while the role of primary parent will be mine, I want them to know you and where they came from as much as you are comfortable with. I believe everyone should know where they come from and that you can never have too many people who love you. This means all of us, our families, and all the resources we can give supporting them throughout their lives. My promise to you is that as a parent, I will give them every opportunity I can provide: a home, an education, a loving family, opportunities to travel, and good choices about the adult they will grow into.

Thank you again for considering me.