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Bryar & Chance

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Family Type: Gay Couple

State We live in: Michigan

Children: No

Religion: Christian

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dear expectant mother

As we sat trying to write this, we began to realize how difficult it must be for you to decide who the best fit will be for your baby from a short letter. We want to start off by offering our sincerest appreciation and commending you for your strength and courage as you navigate your adoption plans. We can’t begin to imagine how incredibly difficult this choice is, and we can’t express what an honor it would be for us to be chosen as adoptive parents for your baby.

Adoption was not a decision we made lightly. We wanted to ensure we were mentally, emotionally, and financially ready to provide your baby with the most loving, nurturing, and secure home possible. The immense support we have received from our family and friends helps to solidify that adoption is the path intended for us to start our family. Since the early stages of our relationship, we have always talked about names and nursery ideas and have envisioned all the future life events that fatherhood would bring. We are filled with excitement and joy that our next journey is within reach and that you will be able to make our dream become a reality.

Your baby will be the center of our entire world, and they will never go a day without unconditional love and support if you choose us. We promise to give the very best for the baby entrusted to us and to do everything we can to make sure they have a life filled with adventures, happiness, laughter, and love. Thank you for your consideration, and we hope to be meeting you and your baby very soon!

With love,
Bryar & Chance

We promise to give the very best for the baby entrusted to us and to do everything we can to make sure they have a life filled with adventures, happiness, laughter, and love.

-Bryar & Chance

About Us

We are Bryar and Chance. We met five years ago and have been inseparable ever since. We are getting married Fall 2023 and are excited for what the future holds. Bryar works as a logistics analyst while also working in real estate, and Chance is an architectural designer working to become a licensed builder. Our passion for real estate, design, and construction has led us to start our own design-build company, and we have worked on numerous projects together. The saying “opposites attract” is true for us, but it’s our differences that make us a stronger couple. We would describe ourselves as happy, loving, kind, giving, and ambitious. When we are not working, we enjoy spending time with family and friends, playing with our dog, playing board games, and planning for our future.

Our Home & Pets

We are in the process of building our forever home, which will have four bedrooms, a big yard, and space for our family to grow. Our new home will be surrounded by hundreds of acres of conservation land with highly ranked schools and a neighborhood filled with families. We also have a family lake house in northern Michigan, where we enjoy spending our summer weekends boating, sitting around a bonfire, and relaxing. We have a teacup chihuahua named Diego who is five years old and has a personality all his own. Diego is playful and happy and loves to snuggle. He loves it when he gets to see our nephew, and we know he will be amazing welcoming a baby into our family.

Our Extended Family

We both come from small immediate families; Bryar has one sister, and Chance is an only child. This has led us to want to create a large family of our own. We are both extremely close with our moms, and our families have been extremely accepting of us and are ecstatic at us having a baby. We live close to Bryar’s mom and sister, which allows us to spend time with them frequently. We are lucky to be able to watch our two-year-old nephew some weekends and would love for him to have a close cousin to grow up with. Chance’s mom lives a little farther away, but that doesn’t stop us from seeing her a couple times a month at the least.

Chance has a large extended family with lots of aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. We are close with his extended family and see them often. We plan for visits and adventures with his cousins. We go boating, camping, and river tubing and are always planning something next together. We both come from very close-knit families that help with anything and everything. Our families can’t wait for us to start a family of our own.

What Led Us To Adoption

Since the beginning of our relationship, we have discussed both of our desires to start a family. We both have wanted to have a family and become dads for as long as we can remember. We explored different options to start our family, and no matter how much we discussed or how much we weighed the different options, we always ended with adoption being our top choice. We know adoption is a continuous and ever-changing process for a birthmother, child, and hopefully us. Our desire to start a family and provide a successful, happy, healthy, and loving life for a child is what has led us to adoption.

more about Bryar

Occupation:: Logistics analyst
Religion:: Christian
Race:: Caucasian
Education:: Bachelor’s degree
Food:: Steak & potatoes
Hobby:: Camping
Movie:: The Wizard of Oz
Favorite Tradition:: Making Christmas cookies

Sport:: Hiking, cycling
Holiday:: Christmas
Music Group:: Fleetwood Mac
TV Show:: Schitt’s Creek
Book:: Harry Potter
Subject in School:: Geography
Dream Vacation:: Patagonia

more about Chance

Occupation:: Architectural designer
Religion:: Christian
Race:: Caucasian
Education:: Bachelor’s degree
Food:: Pizza
Hobby:: Boating
Movie:: The Pursuit of Happyness
Favorite Tradition:: Holiday decorating

Sport:: Hiking, cross country skiing
Holiday:: Thanksgiving
Music Group:: Lukas Graham
TV Show:: Scandal
Book:: The Giver
Subject in School:: History, science
Dream Vacation:: Rio De Janeiro

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