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Cole & RJ

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Family Type: Gay Couple

State We live in: North Carolina

Children: Yes

Religion: Lutheran & Non-affiliated

dear expectant mother

Dear Expectant Mother,

We're RJ and Cole, and we’re blessed with a vibrant daughter, Molly Jean, who's taught us the true depth of love and the joy of parenting. As we anticipate expanding our family, we can't help but reflect on the courage and love you're showing by considering adoption.

Your decision is one of profound love, and we admire your strength. We envision a life for your child filled with laughter, support, and endless opportunities to explore and grow. We promise a future where your child is cherished, their dreams nurtured, and their happiness is our top priority.

We're here with open hearts, ready to share this journey with you while respecting your choices and hoping to offer your child a life full of love, joy, and belonging.

With warmth and respect,
RJ and Cole

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We promise a future where your child is cherished, their dreams nurtured, and their happiness is our top priority.

-Cole & RJ

About Us

We're Cole and RJ, a pair who turned a quirky encounter into two decades of shared adventures. Along the way, our daughter, Molly Jean, joined us, shining brightly and now readying herself for the role of big sister. Our family is built on a foundation of hard work. We both worked before our early teens. Now Cole is mastering the arts of stay-at-home parenting and educational consulting, and RJ is navigating the challenges of leading a digital marketing agency with determination and creativity. Our home is our sanctuary with movie night marathons, kitchen dance-offs, and talks over dinner that might not solve world problems but always end with a good laugh. We want to share this life filled with love, laughter, and all of the organized chaos with another little one. Our journey has room for more memories, more joy, and, most importantly, another heart to love. Together, we're ready to welcome a new chapter filled with warmth, laughter, and the occasional unexpected adventure.

Our Home & Pets

We live in a neighborhood where Molly Jean can explore and lead the charge on adventures through the parks, splashing around in the pools, and dragging us out to science museums every chance she gets. Our home is a hub of warmth, with doors always open to friends we've known for decades and Molly Jean's pals from down the street. And then there's Finn, her furry companion, the most patient mutt you'll ever meet. Finn’s always ready for dress-up or to catch any snack that accidentally flies his way. This network of love and support stands ready to embrace another child, offering them a place in a family that values togetherness, tradition, and the joy of shared experiences.

Our Extended Family

Our family, a blend of relatives and chosen, forms a close-knit circle of love around Molly Jean. She's the heartbeat of a diverse family that treasures time together, whether through play dates, game nights, or moments of connection. This network of love and support stands ready to embrace another child, offering them a place in a family that values togetherness, tradition, and the joy of shared experiences.

Our Adoption Story

Our journey to becoming Molly Jean's parents began when we connected with her biological mother, who was just over six weeks pregnant. With three children of her own and a personal history of adoption, she faced the monumental decision to ensure Molly Jean had the best future possible. We were moved by her strength, sacrifice, and choice we could hardly fathom but deeply respected. This experience opened our eyes to the intense mix of stress, uncertainty, and boundless joy that accompanies the adoption journey. It was a profound period in our lives underscored by the anticipation of welcoming Molly Jean into our hearts. Molly Jean has been the greatest gift in our lives, illuminating every moment. Her boundless energy and spirit have only deepened our desire to share our love with another child.

more about Cole

Occupation:: Stay-at-home parent, educational consultant
Religion:: Lutheran
Race:: Caucasian
Education:: Master of Education
Food:: Latin American
Hobby:: Cooking, reading
Movie:: A League of Their Own
Favorite Tradition:: Christmas Eve

Sport:: Tennis
Holiday:: Christmas
Music Group:: 2000 - 2010 pop
TV Show:: The Great British Baking Show
Book:: Wuthering Heights
Subject in School:: Science
Dream Vacation:: A train ride through Japan to see the cherry blossoms

more about RJ

Occupation:: President, Digital Marketing Agency
Religion:: Non-affiliated
Race:: Caucasian
Education:: BA - English, BS - B. Admin
Food:: Sushi
Hobby:: Reading comics and playing video games with Molly Jean
Movie:: Anything superhero related
Favorite Tradition:: Friday family pizza nights

Sport:: What are sports?
Holiday:: Birthday parties!
Music Group:: Nickel Creek
TV Show:: I don't watch anything over Y-7
Book:: Anything by Roald Dahl
Subject in School:: Art
Dream Vacation:: Two weeks at Disney in the castle

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