dear expectant mother

Dear Expectant Mother,

Whatever has led you here, the important thing is that you are here! We are empathetic toward the emotions you must be feeling, and are so grateful you are taking the time to consider us as the adoptive parents of your baby. We are open to whatever kind of relationship you would like to have, and no matter what, your baby will know what a brave person you are.

If we know anything about life, it's that it isn't fair and it isn't easy. We have had our own trials and tribulations with child loss and then battling and beating breast cancer. We decided on adoption because we know from personal experience that family is so much more than blood.

We are so thrilled to finally get to be parents, and we have so much love, kindness, and knowledge to give to a child. Zach will be the dad who plays, teaches hands-on skills, and gets the family outside. Courtney will be the mom who makes sure academic needs are being met, laughs are had, and that there is always someone to talk to. We will both support and encourage growth in whatever interests them, and there will always be fun and warmth in our home.

With love,
Courtney and Zach