dear expectant mother
Even considering placing this baby for adoption is impossibly hard. It shows strength, selflessness, and generosity—characteristics I hope to nurture in this child, if you place them with me. It also means you love this baby and want them to have a bright and happy future. That's what I want too. I want to love this baby throughout his or her bright and happy life.
I have talked openly about my desire to adopt with friends and family for years. They are the strong network of love and support necessary to help me raise this child as a single mom. I will not be doing this alone. This baby will be loved by an entire family. I spent the past several years examining myself and my abilities. My plan to adopt has driven some of my major life decisions: buying a house, changing jobs to ensure flexibility, and even beginning therapy to ensure I am emotionally prepared to balance my own needs and those of a child. This child is, and will always be, my highest priority.
I know things will not always be easy and part of me is bracing for the teenage years, but I am ready. You have made this baby perfect, and I take the responsibility of raising him or her to be their best self very seriously.
Thank you for taking the time to get to know me, and I hope to get to know you more as well. Trust is a huge part of this process. We will be in this together.
Sincerely,
Daryn