dear expectant mother
Where do we even begin? Another profile to review, possibly still unsure if adoption is the right choice for you, and all the emotion and contemplation involved in deciding if someone else is worthy of raising your child… What an incredible challenge, and we respect you and whatever decision you ultimately make! We won’t pretend to know what you are going through during this process. We are, however, incredibly grateful for the opportunity to share a little about us and hopefully reassure you that we care immensely, not only for you as an expectant mother but for your incredible baby and the amazing life he or she will live!
We have always wanted to be parents and are both 100% momma’s boys. As a same-sex couple, we have struggled to reconcile parenting children knowing just how much our mothers mean to us and have shaped who we are. When we decided adoption was for us, there was no doubt we would be happy proceeding with an open adoption, should the mother want to stay connected. All of our paths in life are different. We have certainly had our struggles and have also experienced immeasurable joy. We are the men we are today, in part, because of our incredible mothers. We say that to hopefully convey to you that YOU matter. You matter to your family, you matter to your unborn child, and you absolutely matter to us!
We are full of love and know it is definitely part of God’s plan for us to be parents. We are praying for you, we are praying for your baby, and we are so grateful for you taking the time to read our profile to consider us being a part of your and your child’s life!