dear expectant mother
Truthfully, we will never pretend to understand how a decision like this feels to you because we could never be in the same situation as a gay couple. We can only imagine what you’re feeling and do our best to provide comfort in your decision.
We have dreamed of being fathers our whole lives. Ammon remembers when he came out to his family at age 16. His younger sister cried and told him she didn’t care that he was gay, but she always knew he would be a father, and she didnt want that to change. Finding a partner who longs for a family with the same amount of passion was one of the first connection points we made as a couple. Watching one another play and interact with the kids in our families is a clear way to see the joy children bring to both of us.
We promise to give everything we have to the child we are lucky enough to love, provide for, and raise. We promise to remind one another that when things get hard, it's not about us anymore; we have a new priority. Lastly and most importantly, we promise unconditional love will surround this child their entire life.
Thank you for considering us.
Ammon & Jeff