dear expectant mother

The first thing to say is Thank You, Thank You, Thank You. We know this is not a decision you take lightly, and we have so much love to give. We want to give back by embracing your child. We will ensure your child is not left feeling in any way that they are lacking anything. To you, this very special woman making a hugely brave decision, we will do our best to honor you, your family, and your child with the knowledge that you are trusting us with this new life.

The bravery and resilience demonstrated by you in coming to this extremely tough decision is not lost on us. We will be very clear in rearing the child with the knowledge that their birthmom is an incredibly strong person and showed true faith and belief in us as a couple to raise this child in a stable,. loving environment. This child's upbringing by us would be a reflection of the good life that you, their birthmother, wanted for them, and we will honor this so you are always close to all our hearts. We hope to have communication with you in the most meaningful and appropriate way, respecting your wishes post-adoption for how big or small a part you want to play in their life.