dear expectant mother
I believe adoption is a unique opportunity to build a family and friendship based on love. The role of a parent is to nurture, develop, and instill life’s important values (including honesty, integrity, hard work, respect, and family). I am very thankful for your strength and bravery in navigating this difficult journey and would do anything possible to help make this an easy transition for everyone involved. I’m very sensitive and vulnerable in writing this letter to you because I was not able to have a child biologically. I am fully committed to providing this child with unconditional love and the tools they need to flourish. The child will be provided for emotionally, socially, spiritually, and financially. I look forward to engaging in their culture, whatever it may be.
Being chosen is a gift I would cherish! I have a wonderful support system, everyone is eager to welcome a new member into our family. We have regular gatherings, and I know this child would be surrounded by love and positive influences. I’m open to discussing what level of contact you would like to have, whether through letters, pictures, or occasional visits.
My experiences have taught me to treasure every single moment in life. I promise to support their dreams and values and will cherish every moment together as a family.
Love,
Jules