dear expectant mother

Let me first say thank you. I can’t imagine the thoughts and emotions you are going through now. I don’t know you, but I already know you are the strongest person I will ever know. By sharing your gift, you are giving another person the ability to become a parent, and that takes great courage. I promise I will honor you, and your child will know where he or she comes from, if that is your wish.

I cannot predict the future, but understand that I will protect and cherish the blessing you will give me. I was blessed to grow up with a loving family, and I promise you your baby will never go one second without being loved and cared for. Even with all the challenges as a single LGBTQ man, my dream to be a parent has never wavered. In my home, as soon as you walk in, the first thing you see is the word “family” and a grouping of photos. The photos are my parents, siblings, godchildren, nieces, and nephews. I have a space on the wall just for the new addition. I pray you choose me so your child’s picture can go on my wall. Thank you and God bless you.